How I Conquered Arizona In 1 and a Half Years On My Own
“He is most powerful who has power over himself”
-Seneca
Okay, I didn’t really conquer Arizona. But, I did conquer my self limiting beliefs of going to a totally new place on my very own and thriving.
For those that have followed my blog thus far, you know that I made my own personal journey from California to Arizona, completely on my own. Not knowing a single soul, just following my instincts, and applying the law of attraction. Get the free manifesto on the right hand side of this blog, to learn directly from me in a hands on way the process that has worked very well for me on my journey.
Below are the top 5 Things that helped me conquer my own limited self beliefs on my own.
1. Action: Massive action was needed for me to start moving along in the direction of what I felt where I was called to move. Without the proper action, and taking steps daily to get to where you want to, nothing will really happen. It is about having a clear vision of what you want and taking the proper action to get you there. Action in alignment with who you truly are, leads you towards your dreams!
2. Patience: It was hard for me to find my way around the completely new place not knowing a single person. It took a lot of patience for me to find my way, and meet some very interesting people that I would find some common ground with. Luckily, I’ve been blessed with a pleasant, kind and friendly personality. Being on my own, I learned that I couldn’t “Jump the gun” practical yet flowing steps were required to get from point A to B. In other words, I had to learn and trust my own flow, this required patience and sometimes not always getting what I wanted when I wanted it. However, trusting that everything will fall into place, actually allowed for the space for everything to eventually fall into place nicely.
3. Blog: I am really glad I had this blog up and running while on my journey in Arizona. This blog has been like my best friend when times seemed hard, but I still wrote about the more positive things, because I understood that although things may have been challenging, keeping a positive attitude along the way really was going to be at the core of my successful journey on my own. I think if there is one thing that I am most proud of, is my resilience. Aside from the blog, I kept a notebook that I used as a journal entry to record my thoughts, which helped me a lot.
4. Accepting Being Unbalanced. When you first step out on your own, you have to know that life will feel very unbalanced. You will have to focus on key areas that will tip your scale a lot, because you have to adjust to not having that much leverage, as it really does become “all on you” Knowing this ahead of time, I prepared for the unbalance I had to face. In order to keep up with my bills and rent I had to work a lot more longer than I was used to, and that probably meant less time for myself. However, after about 6 months I learned how to balance it out more, by seeking activities that allowed for more balance to occur.
5. Dominate. When you are on your own, you have to be on dominate mode most of the time. The truth is it can be a rather cold world out there, and you have to learn how to think on your feet and move with the changes, and dominate. By dominate, I simply mean dominate over your own fears, worries, and self doubt. It helps to have support from people that understand you reason for moving. But, if you don’t have that, that’s an extra obstacle you must conquer for yourself… that makes you stronger. You create your own reality. The only thing that you really have to dominate is over your own fears and doubt. This is a process. As you learn to dominate these, you get to where you really want for yourself, and inspire other to do the same. It really is about turning up the volume of the winner voice inside your head, and turning down the volume of the looser voice. The winner voice leads you towards your dreams.
Further Notes:
I am grateful for what I’ve learned thus far, and continue to move along in this journey of life with excitement, gratitude, and joy. Everyday is a new adventure. My flow in this life has been, and continues to be beautiful, and magical. A lot of people say I am a very strong and courageous soul for accomplishing what I have done on my own… But, I think it was just part of my own journey that I had to learn, and grow from. To be honest, this is just the beginning for me, Expect bigger things that get worldwide attention from Baker in the future. I have a few tricks up my sleeve, before I transcend from this planet. =)
Stay blessed and believe in your infinite potential.
